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Quotes By Alice Miller

There are people who have benefited from therapy without being confronted with the past at all.

Alice Miller
Confronted Past Therapy

It is possible to resolve childhood repression safely and without confusion – something that has always been disputed by the most respected schools of thought.

Alice Miller
Childhood Possible Schools

Today I should not be identified with any kind of regressive therapy.

Alice Miller
Identified Therapy Today

Don’t ever dare to take your college as a matter of course – because, like democracy and freedom, many people you’ll never know have broken their hearts to get it for you.

Alice Miller
FreedomDemocracy Matter

Nobody is born evil.

Alice Miller
Born Evil Nobody

We produce destructive people by the way we are treating them in childhood.

Alice Miller
Childhood Produce Treating

Regression to the stage of early infancy is not a suitable method in and of itself. Such a regression can only be effective if it happens in the natural course of therapy and if the client is able to maintain adult consciousness at the same time.

Alice Miller
TimeItself Natural

A child too, can never grasp the fact that the same mother who cooks so well, is so concerned about his cough, and helps so kindly with his homework, in some circumstance has no more feeling than a wall of his hidden inner world.

Alice Miller
Fact Feeling Mother

The reason why parents mistreat their children has less to do with character and temperament than with the fact that they were mistreated themselves and were not permitted to defend themselves.

Alice Miller
Character Fact Reason

Contempt is the weapon of the weak and a defense against one’s own despised and unwanted feelings.

Alice Miller
Against Feelings Weak

It is very difficult for people to believe the simple fact that every persecutor was once a victim. Yet it should be very obvious that someone who was allowed to feel free and strong from childhood does not have the need to humiliate another person.

Alice Miller
Fact Free Strong

Wherever I look, I see signs of the commandment to honor one’s parents and nowhere of a commandment that calls for the respect of a child.

Alice Miller
RespectChild Parents

Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn.

Alice Miller
EducationLearningLearn

Genuine forgiveness does not deny anger but faces it head-on.

Alice Miller
AngerForgivenessGenuine

Those children who are beaten will in turn give beatings, those who are intimidated will be intimidating, those who are humiliated will impose humiliation, and those whose souls are murdered will murder.

Alice Miller
Souls Turn Whose
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